Showing posts with label progress. Show all posts
Showing posts with label progress. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 3, 2019

Progress report: month 4 (August 2019)


Another month down.

1. ...basement -- Continued to work on it.
2. Sort/discard -- Lots more from basement: 28!
5. ... garage and deck ... -- Finished garage.
31. ... paperwork... -- On track
35. ... gym... Success!  4x per week in August
36. ... vitamins, etc. ... B+
38. ... swim... -- One more time; 4 total (This isn't a reasonable goal since my eyes are so sensitive to light.  Sun is too bright.)
39. Replace mattress -- First task accomplished on August 7!
43. ... Book group -- Done
44. ... Uvulati -- Done
45. ... Hearts & Hands -- Done
49. ... 150 movies -- Watched 6; total 33
      The beguiled (1971)
      Between me and my mind (theatre)
      Miseducation of Cameron Post
      T.R.A.P.P.E.D.
      Robin Williams: Come inside my mind
      Wuthering Heights (1939)
50. ... 125 books/30 I own/15 previous BG/RC...  -- Read 4
     Current total: Read 31, own 5,
      Baudelaire: Flowers of evil [RC 2017]
      Scottoline: Courting trouble
      Krauss: The history of love
      Alexie: Reservation blues [RC 2017]
52. ... current BG book -- Done
53. ... current RH Challenge -- In process
54. ... previous RH Challenges -- In process (1 more to go to finish 2017)
94. ... gratitude journal... -- Up-to-date
96. ... blog... update monthly -- Up-to-date
98. ... blog... 2 posts per month -- Up-to-date



Thursday, August 29, 2019

Progress report: month 3 (July 2019)


I continue to work on my goals.

1.  Finish organizing basement -- I started to organize the basement.  A long way to go, but I've already pitched several BOXES of old papers, among other stuff.
2. Sort/discard ... goal 10 items per month...  -- With the basement purge and other activities, I counted 48!
31. Keep up with paperwork -- OK with this.
35. Gym 3-4x per week -- Success!  Three visits per week all month.
36. Vitamins, etc. -- B+ again
39. Replace mattress -- New mattress ordered
43. Went to July book group.
44. Went to Uvulati.
45. Went to Hearts & Hands.
49. Watch 150 movies -- Watched 12.
   Current total: 28
      Northanger Abbey
      Kiss me, Kate
      Yesterday (at theatre -- LOVED IT)
      Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice
      Where the heart is
      Tab Hunter confidential
      Confirmation
      Punchline
      Fosse/Verdon
      Children's hour
      Mildred Pierce (1945)
      Suspicion
50. Read 125 books, including 20 I own. -- Read 12, including 1 I own.
     Current total: Read 27; own 5
      Beagle: A fine and private place [RC 2015]
      Bronte: Wuthering Heights [RC 2015]
      Kellerman: Guilt
      Greer: Less
      Michener: Alaska
      Silber: Improvement
      Gottlieb: Best boy [RC 2019]
      Tamaki & Tamaki: This one summer [RC 2019]
      Stoll: High tech heretic [RC 2017 + own]
      Hausman: Sitting on the blue-eyed bear [RC2019]
      Weatherford: Schomberg -- the man who built a library [RC 2019]
      Bryson: Neither here nor there [RC 2019]
52. ... monthly book group book... -- Done
53. ... 2019 Reading Challenge... -- In process
54. Finish 2015/2017 Reading Challenges -- Finished 2015.
94. Gratitude journal -- Up to date
96. Re-start blog -- Did 2 posts plus update
   


Thursday, August 1, 2019

Progress report: month 2 (June 2019)


Better late than... (you know the rest). 

2. Sort/discard... goal of 10 per month -- Got rid of 17
35. Go to gym 3-4 times a week -- Didn't make the 3-4x per week. 
36. Teeth & vitamins -- I give myself a B+ for this.  Not perfect, but better than before.
31. Keep up with paperwork -- OK
38. Swim 10 times this summer -- 2 in July; 3 so far
43. Book group -- Missed June meeting for travel, but reading book.
44. Uvulati -- Attended June meeting.
45. Hearts & Hands --Attended June meeting.

49. Watch 150 movies -- Watched 7;  current total 16.
     Shampoo
     Genius
     A dog's way home
     Dumplin'
     Three identical strangers
     Late night
     Irma La Douce
50. Read 125 books, including 20 that I own -- Read 8, including 3 that I own.
        Current total: Read 15; own 4
     Finney: Time and again [RC 2017/own]
     Segal: The awkward age 
     Smith: Don't call us dead [RC 2015]
     Moon & Ba: Daytripper [RC 2017/Graphic novel]
     Semple: Where'd you go, Bernadette? [RC 2019/own]
     Okorafor: Binti - Home [RC 2015]
     Peters: Keeping you a secret [RC 2017]
     Hambly: Wet grave [Own]
52. Book group book -- Done
53. 2019 Read Harder Challenge -- In process
54. Finish 2015 & 2017 challenges -- Finished 2015
94. Gratitude journal -- Up-to-date
95. Re-start blog & update monthly -- In process
96. Two new posts a month -- Only did one in June.  
99. Go on Road Scholar Civil Rights tour -- Paid in full for November 3-10.

     


Wednesday, June 5, 2019

Progress report: month 1 (May 2019)

Got off to a good start on my goals! 

2. Sort/discard... goal of 10 per month:  Got rid of 30.
5. Clean/reorganize garage: Project started.
35. Go to gym 3-4 times a week: Did this for the part of the month that I was home.
36. Teeth & vitamins: I give myself a B+ for this.  Not perfect, but better than before.
38. Swim 10 time per summer: 1 time
43. Book group: Missed May meeting for travel, but reading book.
45. Uvulati: Attended May meeting.
46. Hearts and Hands: Attended May meeting (my first).
49. Watch 150 movies: Watched 9.
     Cat Ballou
     Amazing Grace (theatre)
     November Man
     Long Hot Summer
     Travels With My Aunt
     On the Basis of Sex
     Mary Poppins Returns
     The Upside
     A Star is Born
50.  125 books, including 20 that I own: Read 7, one owned.
     Long Black Veil (Boylan) [Reading Challenge 2019]
     My Brother's Husband (Tagame) [Reading Challenge 2019]
     Catwoman: When in Rome (Graphic novel) [Reading Challenge 2017]
     The Awakening (Chopin) [Previous book group + own]
     Sisters of Glass Ferry (Richardson) [audio]
     Friday Night Lights (Bissinger) [Reading Challenge 2017]
     Prospero's Daughter (Nunez) [Reading Challenge 2015]
58. New ethnic cuisines: Japanese
65. Visit 6 new states: Went to two (Alaska and Oregon)*
94. Gratitude journal: Started and up-to-date.
97. Write 2 blog posts plus progress report: Up-to-date with this one.
99. Road Scholar Civil Rights tour: Paid deposit.

Full disclosure: I knew I'd be visiting these two states when I was making my list, which is why I chose the goal of visiting 6, so that it would be a stretch.  Also, could have counted this trip as #61 (go somewhere we hadn't been before with D#1), but I'm hoping to go someplace else with her before the 1001 days are up.

   


Sunday, October 20, 2013

W.I.B.W.O.

I had planned to finish up with one or two non-quilty posts and, by then, dump the photos of the most recent from my camera's memory card so I could show all the finishes from the past few months. But somehow a "draft" got posted with photos and temporary text so, rather than take it all back, I just added the correct text to the pictures. 

Graduation quilt for D#1's boyfriend.  He's from Seattle, spent a semester in India, and went to school in Washington DC.   The quilt, called "Oh, the Places You've Been" is made up of fabrics representing these places and was quilted by my usual long-armer.


The back is pieced from yellow (his favorite color) polka dot fabric with a strip of green for his environmental studies degree.  There's also a scrap of London fabric relating to the time he spent with us there over Christmas, and a strip with the Canadian flag (a late addition since I didn't find it until the back had been pieced) because he was born in Canada.


Our hand-sewing group made baby quilts for the Baby Bureau as a summer project.  Nancy posted photos of them here.  I'd forgotten to take mine to the meeting, but had finished up three small projects that were in process when we'd decided on the summer goal.  All of these were quilted by me.

My personal challenge from a while back.



Center was from sample blocks from previous quilts, bordered with a lot of scrap 2 1/2" squares.


Yet another way to use the "V-blocks" which I made by the hundreds!


I didn't put a label on these but did embroider my initials on the corner of the backs. 


More posts (and quilts) to come.





Wednesday, July 31, 2013

W.I.B.W.O.

When I get my act together (no breath-holding, please!), I hope to do a couple of posts with actual writing.  Want to finish up my London trip, and put up a few photos of subsequent travel.  Till then, here are some of the quilts I've finished and photographed.
The pattern for the main part of the quilt below became known as "The Quilt From Hell" as it flummoxed blog-free Honna, one of our White Oak Group, a while back.  Consequently, I gave her some small assistance so she could finish the large one she was making as a gift.  I just knew that, with the right fabrics (contrast, contrast, contrast), it would be lovely.   Last year, I decided to make it in purples and pansies for D#2's "new" room.  (We've only been in our house ...um... 3 years now...).  When I asked Honna if I could borrow the pattern, she graciously rescued the pattern from the trash and gave it to me for keeps!  I lengthened so it would fit D#2's bed and designed the pieced borders, using actual math!  Unfortunately, when I started to put them together, I discovered that my "actual" math was wrong.  I therefore named the borders "the borders from Hades"!   But, when it was FINALLY completed, I was mostly happy with it!   Size is a touch small to be the generous bedspread I wanted, but it still covers the mattress and box spring.


An office colleague has two daughters, each of whom announced in January that he would be a grandfather!  Their due dates were just one week apart and the babies' actual birthdates were back-to-back!  "Standard issue" baby quilts for both!   His favorite color is orange, so a nod to granddad on both bindings.



The organization "Quilts for Kids" hosted the Philly Modern Quilt Guild for a sew-in a while back.  I went along as the guest of my friend, Bobbi.  There I started putting together a pre-cut kit of fun Laurel Burch cat fabrics.  Finally finished it so it could be returned to QfK.  This photo was taken before I added some additional quilting, per the organization's request. 


Years ago, a pattern called "Pointless Wonder" was floating about -- one of those stack-and-slash patterns where end up with all the fabrics mixed up in each block.   Not long after 9/11, I'd made one in red, white, and blue, one of many delivered to the families of the firefighters killed that day.  

Last fall, I brought to a close (temporarily at least) my relationship with a therapist who had seen me through the worst of my "annis-es horriblis-es".   I wanted to make her a "parting gift," so to speak). I decided this pattern, with stars whose points were all chopped off, would be appropriate, partially as a representation of my struggle to break free of my perfectionistic attitudes. I chose the fabrics because she and I share the favorite color of purple, she works with many women, hence the pink, and green is the color of growth.  Thought I'd call it "Perfect Points are for Perfect People", but that was way too long, so I settled on just Pointless Wonder, and included a note about the rejected name as well as the color scheme. 


The last of my purple trio -- a free pattern from Susan Mallery called "Land of Happy Endings." Oddly, though I am known for my love of purple and I own a ton of fabric in those tones, I'd never made a purple quilt!   Then, for a while, I had three in progress -- the purple pansies for D#2, PW for T, and this one.... just because.  Currently a quilt with no owner, it was made of scraps, with the yellow and white 9-patches my leader-ender project for some time.  I was so excited when I found that polka dot border fabric!  You may be able to see it more closely if you click on the photo.   


I've already had a couple of offers to take it off my hands....

Monday, July 22, 2013

Wrapping up Day Zero (for now at least)


Over three months ago, I posted the last monthly update about my Day Zero (101 things in 1001 days) project.  I started DZ just a few months after moving into my "new" house, and right after my younger daughter graduated from high school, starting on July 1, 2010 and ending on March 29, 2013, presuming I counted the days correctly.  I had a lot of life-revising to do back then.  Sort of like re-starting your computer from scratch.  A "cold boot" in [old-fashioned] computer terms.

I knew I needed to create structure in my new life, hence "newfutureahead" (this blog was one of my 101 things) so the ready-made structure of the Day Zero Project was appealing.  I fashioned my list to combine a "to do" list, a few "bucket list"-type projects, and a number of aspirational goals, as well as a couple of things I hoped to do often enough to become a habit.

After I jotted down a number of ideas, I found that my best approach was to categorize them.  During my 1001 days, I completed all 8 that were labelled "Financial/Legal", all 4 "Entertainment" (I surpassed my number of books to read and movies to watch relatively early in the process), and finished all but one of the 9 "Family and Friends" goals.  The last of those was to help D#1 get her driver's license which didn't fall inside the deadline, but has since been accomplished!  

Only 18 of my goals remained untouched at the close of the project!  Almost half that number, in "Home Improvement" or "Recreation," were not undertaken because of physical or financial limitations.  The rest were mostly "Education/Self-Development", though there were two unstarted quilts in "Hobbies" and one entry under "Charitable/Religious" that was never available to me within the time frame.  I made some degree of progress on 6 other goals, mostly related to "Health," on which I know I need more focus.

Overall, DZ was a positive experience for me, helping me to do just what I set out to do: get specific things done while remaking my life in a larger sense.   I'm beginning to put together a list for a follow-up DZ project, to begin at some unspecified future date.  About a third of that list will be the unfinished (and un-begun) items from DZ1, along with a number of actions that I want to keep doing actively.  With my younger daughter beginning her senior year of college in about 5 weeks, there will be more re-structuring to do before long. 


For the one or two of you who read here, my blog isn't going away.  I hope to do some catch up posts that are travel- or quilt-related, and then to try to be more regular in posting.   See you soon!

Friday, April 12, 2013

Progress report: month 33 (March 2013)

Last month of my Day Zero project.  Counted down the days as I went.

Completed:
71. Finish t-shirt quilt for D#1
72. Finish quilt for D#2's bed
80. Updated quilt photo albums
90. Finished reading Psalms for Lent

Progress:
7,26,28,33,99,101. Kept up to date.
48. Watched 6 movies:
      Hook
      Quartet (theatre)
      Poison Ivy
      About last night...
      The reading room
      Call the midwife (season 1)
49. Finished 4 books:
     The book of air and shadows (Michael Gruber) [audio]
     Wolf Hall (Hilary Mantel)
     Ship fever (Andrea Barrett)
     Left neglected (Lisa Genova) [audio]
Extra quilts: finished binding baby quilt for A's new grandson, got two back from long-armer ("Pointless wonder" & "Land of happy endings")

Will do a wrap up post on the whole experience. 

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Progress report: month 32 (February 2013)


This was the next to last month in my 1001 days!  Almost there!

Completed:
89.  Give blood once a year
(Tried.  Techs got needle in but I wouldn't bleed.  I tried, so I'm counting it!)

Progress
7,26,28,33,99,101. Kept up to date.
  9. Gave away 375 books!  
48. Watched 6 movies:
      Tess of the D'Urbervilles                              
      Powder blue
      Howard's End
      Downton Abbey (season 2)
      Looking for Richard
     Heathers 

49. Finished one book:
      The kid (Dan Savage)
(I was reading, but was in the middle of two LONG books: listening to an audio book of 15 CDs and reading a 600+ page book.)
71. Got t-shirt quilt back from longarmer.  I'm binding it now!
90. Lent started.  I restarted Bible reading.

Priorities for March (last chance):
71,  Finish t-shirt quilt for D#1
72.  Finish top for new quilt for D#2's room (partial, still need to make curtains)
80.  Finish quilt photo books
90.  Finish Lenten Bible reading
92. Write letters to remaining two sponsored children

Monday, February 4, 2013

Progress report: month 31 (January 2013)


January had me traveling a lot.  Or at least it felt like it!  Started out recovering from my "British bronchitis", went to DC for the inauguration, spent just two days at home, then off to Seattle for work.  The month also brought me into "Day 940s", so my 1001 days are approaching the end.  Some things on my list are simply not going to get done, whether for lack of time or money.  But I plan to try to complete as much as I can.

Completed:
Nothing

Progress
7,26,28,33,99,101. Kept up to date.
48. Saw 8 movies:
     Love! Valour! Compassion
     Sherlock (season 1)                    
     Sherlock (season 2)
     Les Miserables (theatre 2x)    
     Pieces of April
     The virgin suicides
     Dick Tracy
     Birdsong

49. Read 5 books:
    The beautiful mystery (Louise Penny)
    The museum guard (Howard A. Norman)
    Single state of union (Diane Mapes, ed.)
    Miss American Pie (Margaret Sartor)
    The hotel on the corner of bitter and sweet (Jamie Ford)

Priorities for February (same as January):
71. Finish quilt top and get it quilted.
72. Finish top.
80. Finish quilt photo album. 

Want to put up a couple of posts about my travels.  My goal is to be caught up on those by the end of February. 

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Progress report: month 30 (December 2012)


Completed:
59. Take both daughters on vacation for at least 5 days.

Progress:
7,26,28,33,99,101. Kept up to date. 
48. Saw 8 movies: 
    Death at a funeral
    The Savages
    We need to talk about Kevin
    Room with a view
    Brave
    Hope Springs
    Up
    Jeff, who lives at home
49. Read 5 books:
     Blasphemy (Sherman Alexie)
     V is for vengeance (Sue Grafton)
     Fallen angels (Tracy Chevalier) [audio]
     The sense of a ending (Julian Barnes)
     Bleeding Heart Square (Andrew Taylor)

Priorities for January:
71. Finish quilt top and get it quilted.
72. Finish top.
80. Finish quilt photo album.

 

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Progress update: month 29 (November 2012)

Completed:
30. Make a will
44. Attend Family Weekend
54. Attend play/musical in Philadelphia or New York each year

Progress:
7,26,28,33,99,101. Kept up to date.
48. Saw 8 movies:

     The Doors
     Word play
     Marilyn Hothkiss' s Ballroom Dancing & Charm School
     The boys in the band
     Enchanted April
     Lars and the real girl
     Silver linings playbook (theatre)
     Martha Marcy May Marlene
49. Read 5 books: 
     The 19th wife (David Ebershoff)
     The night circus (Erin Morgenstern) [audio]
     The tender bar (J.R. Moeringer)
     The elegance of the hedgehog (Muriel Barbery) [audio]
     The sociopath next door (Martha Stout)
71. Got back to t-shirt quilt for D#1.
72. More work on quilt for D#2's room.
80. Continued to work on quilt photo albums.
93. Volunteered at Hiway.
Extra quilts: Gave mystery quilt as wedding gift.

Priorities for December:
59. Take a big trip with both daughters.
71. Finish top; get it quilted.
72. Finish top.
80. Finish quilt photo albums.

 
 


Sunday, November 4, 2012

Progress update: month 28 (October 2012)

No completions this month.

Progress:
7,26,28,33,99,101. Kept up to date. 
48. Saw 8 movies:
     Chaos and cadavers
     Miss Pettigrew lives for a day
     Argo (theatre)
     Hugo
     Sports night (TV; only one season)
     The Town
     Parenthood
     The good shepherd
49. Read 3 books:
      Songs for the missing (Stewart O'Nan)
      The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street (Helene Hanff)
      Things fall apart (Chinua Achebe) [audio]
72. Started quilt for D#2's room 
93. Volunteered at Hiway
Extra quilts: finished hand quilting baby quilt; finished main top of PW quilt; finished mystery quilt as wedding gift (to be delivered in November)

Priorities for November:
6/7/9. Work in basement; declutter books & stuff.
30. Finish writing will; have it witnessed.
71. Finish t-shirt quilt top for D#1.
72. Finish quilt for D#2's new room.
80. Finish work on quilt photo albums. 

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Progress update: month 27 (September 2012)


In September, I hit the 80/20 mark by passing day #800.   Onward! 

Completed:
21. Gas stove installed
23. Last of old carpet out of basement

Progress:
7,26,28,33,99,101. Kept up to date.
48. Saw 12 movies
 
      Six feet under (5th and last season)
      Taking chance
      Peggy Sue got married 
      The way 
      My favorite year 
      The best and the brightest
      A dolphin tale 
      The words (theatre) 
      For your consideration 
      The full monty 
      Doubt 
      The remains of the day
49. Read 5 books
      Full dark, no stars (Stephen King)
      Putting makeup on the fat boy (Bil Wright)
      The perks of being a wallflower (Stephen Chbonsky)
            (count as 1 -- both YA)
      The five people you meet in heaven (Mitch Albom) [my first audiobook]
      The Family Fang (Kevin Wilson)
      Unfamiliar fishes (Sarah Vowell) [audio] 

80. started work on quilt photo albums
Extra quilts: “Traditions” charm quilt for Oktoberfest; scrap log cabin for Rebuilding Together Philadelphia (running total of 9 "healing" quilts); Sherbet & Gum Balls (for a friend)

Priorities for October
6/7/9. Work in basement; declutter books & stuff.
18. Work on deck (weather limitations?)
30. Finish writing will; have it witnessed.
71. More work on t-shirt quilt for D#1.
72. Start quilt for D#2's new room.
80. More work on quilt photo albums. 

Friday, September 7, 2012

Progress report: month 26 (August 2012)

Starting off with SIX completions!  Tada!
Completed:
16. Have lamps in bathroom replaced.
20. Have electrical work done.
50. Take Ds to movies once a year (met minimum.. not max)
51. Go to movies alone once a year (same as above)
52. Go down the shore once a year (and again...)
63. Visit Mutter Museum.

Progress:
7,26,28,33,99. Kept up to date.
 9. Gave away another 75 books (Abington Library).
21. Had gas line installed for stove.
23. Pulled carpet up from basement stairs.
30. Downloaded forms to write my will; completed Living Will and had notarized.
48. Saw 10 movies:
      The Dark Knight rises (theatre)
      10 things I hate about you
      Ed Wood
      To Wong Foo, Thanks for everything, Julie Newmar
      Ruby Sparks (theatre)
      We bought a zoo
      I'm not there
      The constant gardener
      Punch drunk love
      Neverwhere
49. Read 4 books (94/60, 49/30, 41/10)
      Don't let's go to the dogs tonight (Alexandra Fuller)
      The remains of the day (Kazuo Ishiguro)
      Nickel and dimed (Barbara Ehrenreich)
      Cocktail hour under the Tree of Forgetfulness (Alexandra Fuller)
92. Wrote to another of three remaining sponsored children.
93. Continued volunteering at Hiway Theatre; started at Pet Smart's
      cat adoption area.
Extra quilts: finished "Jelly/Fish/Race" for Safe Harbor (running total of 7
      "healing" quilts)

Priorities for September:
6/7/9. Work in basement; declutter books & stuff.
18. Work on deck (weather limitations?)
21. Gas stove.
23. Finish getting old carpet out of basement.
30. Finish writing will; have it witnessed.
71. More work on t-shirt quilt for D#1.
72. Start quilt for D#2's new room.
80. Work on quilt photo albums.

     

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Progress report: month 25 (July2012)

(Above in honor of the Olympics -- which I haven't even watched!)

Progress on a few new and different goals this month!

Completed:
24. Trellis & clematis planted by front porch
     [replacement home improvement goal]
47. Have prints made from digital photos.

Progress:
7, 26, 28, 99. Kept up-to-date
     (Gave away 10 more books)
16. Bought new lamps for upstairs bathroom.
20. Scheduled electrical work for August (to include installation of above lamps).
30. Completed Living Will (and had notarized); downloaded forms for will.
33. Tallied 106 workouts in one year -- just over 2 per week average.
48. Watched 12 movies:
     The Departed
     Stranger than fiction
     Torch song trilogy
     The Axe in the attic (documentary)
     Six feet under (TV: season 4)
     Moonrise Kingdom (theatre)
     Leverage (TV: season 1)
     Moneyball
     From Hell
     The Ides of March
     Thank you for smoking
     The Dark Knight rises (theatre)
     10 things I hate about you
      Ed Wood
49. Read 4 books:
     Swamplandia! (Karen Russell)
     The Devotion of Suspect X (Keigo Higashino)
     Maus, v. 1 (Art Spiegelman) [graphic novel]
     What came before he shot her (Elizabeth George)    
59. Booked airfare and hotel for trip to London at Christmas.
      Will meet D#2 and be joined by D#1.
84. Extra contributions: St. Paul's Memorial Garden, Unicef
93. Volunteered to take tickets at Hiway
101. Blog post: Where am I now?

Quilts: finished binding Traditions, finished binding A-Tisket, A-Tasket, quilted Jelly/Fish/Race on QE4, finished top for Rebuilding Philadelphia quilt

Priorities for August:
6/9. Work in basement some more.
18. Work on deck!
20. Have electrical work completed.
21. Schedule gas line installation and buy gas stove.
30. Make will and have notarized.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Where am I now?


I am here.  My first post on this blog was dated 6/23/2010 -- just over two years ago.  I chose the name "howdidIgethere" because I found myself somewhere that I never expected to be: on my own again after my husband of ~20 years had suddenly announced he didn't want to be married to me anymore.  I was also, at that time, newly moved into my home which I bought after having to sell the home I lived in with my (now-ex) husband and our daughters.

The blog was started as a part of my Day Zero Project, as a way to keep track of my progress, since I found myself a little lacking in focus and direction, which were helped along by the Project.  With a "new" home, one daughter mostly out of the house, the other headed to college in the fall, I had the opportunity -- and the need -- to set down some new roots as a single person, as well as continuing to heal and put back the pieces from the devastation I'd experienced.  

I have now been divorced for a little over a year.  D#1 graduated from college last year and recently took a job in Washington DC, while D#2 is halfway through her college years.  I am close to them both and see them or communicate with them regularly.   My home is slowly becoming "mine", reflecting my style and personality.  (Notice the purple chairs on the porch!)   In addition to my family (blood and "adopted:"), I've been blessed with a group of friends who I've known for a number of years, joined by some new ones who know me only as a single person.   I have traveled on business but also visited D#1 when she studied in Egypt, and vacationed by myself to attend the major quilt show in Paducah, Kentucky.   D#1 and I are now planning to spend Christmas in London, meeting D#2 when she finishes her fall semester studying there at Queen Mary College.  

In general, I can say honestly that I like where I am (both physically and mentally) right now.  Given where I was almost 5 years ago, when my life had been shattered, I believe I have made incredible progress in re-creating a good life from those shards. I no longer think of myself as a "left-behind spouse" but just as a single adult, with almost-grown children.  I believe I have been a good role model for my daughters, as well as being a source of strength and support for them as they faced the changes in their lives.

"How did I get here?" is still a valid question.  But "here" is not the same place I was back then.  And I no longer ask it out of confusion  Instead, I look back on where I was then, and where I am now, and vow to continue on the path that got me this far.   Thank you to all of you who were there for me at any time in the past.  I am blessed to have you in my life.

Edited to add this, with my deepest thanks.  It was posted to my Facebook page by Nancy and seems to sum it up succinctly.



Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Progress report: month 24 (June 2012)


June wrapped up the first two calendar years since I started the Day Zero project.  Unfortunately, I spent nearly half the month either out of town or sick, so my accomplishments seem less than usual.

Completed:
62. Attended Phillies game. (left after rain delay, but hope to do it again!)

Progress:
7,26,28,33,99. Kept up-to-date.
(Includes giving away 74 books to library)
  48. Watched 12 movies: (205/125).
        Ready to wear
        Black swan
        Pump up the volume
        Apocalypse now redux
        Kind hearts and coronets
        Midnight in the garden of good and evil
        The Help
        Bernie (theatre)
        Hearts of darkness
        Two women
        What would Jesus buy
        Party girl
  49. Read 2 books: (84/60, 46/30, 35/10)
        The god of small things (Roy)
        The bone collector (Deaver)
  55. Attended concert of the Rockbottom Remainders at ALA conference. 
        FUN!
  84. Extra contributions: St. Paul's Memorial Garden & Muhlenberg's
        Summer Music Theatre
101. Blog posts (2):
       W.I.B.W.O
       Anaheim conference: June 2012

Quilts: did my own quilting on Traditions charm quilt, ready to hand sew binding; finished mystery quilt top.
      
Priorities for July (same as June):
6/9.  Back to basement...
 20. Get estimates for electrical work.
 30. Make a will.








Friday, June 1, 2012

Progress report: month 23 (May 2012)


May 31 = Day 700!  Seventy-percent of my 1001 days behind me.  So!  How am I doing?   Let's see...

Completed:
87.  Co-lead Deborah Circle (Fall 2010-Spring 2012)

Progress: 
7,26,28,33,99. Kept up-to-date.
  48. Watched 12 movies: (193/125)
        The Lovely bones
        Super 8
        American dreamz
        Extremely loud and incredibly close
        The Descendents
        Best Exotic Marigold Hotel (theatre)
        Best in show
        Driving lessons
        Dangerous liaisons
        Valentine’s Day
        Temple Grandin
        Burlesque
(Yeah, I know -- all over the place!)
  49. Read 6 books: (82/60, 44/30, 35/10)
        Operating instructions (Anne Lamott)
        With no one as witness (Elizabeth George)
        Death with interruptions (Jose Salamarago)
        A Trick of the light (Louise Penny)
        An Awfully big adventure (Beryl Bainbridge)  
        The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society (May Ann Shaffer)
  84. Extra contributions: St. Paul's Memorial Garden, Baby Manna/Philabundance
101. Blog posts (3)
        White Oak retreat (April 2012)
        Paducah KY
        W.I.B.W.O.

Quilts: bound and finished Rubik's Rings, gave Asian Anvils to D#2's friend for graduation gift

Priorities for June:
6/9.  Back to basement...
20. Get estimates for electrical work.
30. Make a will.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

W.I.B.W.O.

Considering my travels, my household "issues", and the on-and-off presence of one or both of my daughters, I'm kind of surprised I've gotten anything done at all.  However, I did finish the Rubik's Rings quilt, including a couple of miles of binding.  Quilted by my favorite local long-armer.


Between binding sessions, it would be draped over the back of the chair in the living room.  Tabbitha approved.


Did a little gardening and appreciated the progress of last year's plantings.









Still have more planting to do -- some more perennials in the ground, and some annuals in new pots for the front porch.


I can only garden in spring and fall -- too hot and humid otherwise.  That's when I hide inside in the air-conditioning and sew, read, and watch movies.  Not complaining...


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